unstuck in time

chopsueycinema:

I love having tea during rainy afternoons and hanging out at coffee shops.  I usually come with friends but you know, friends sometimes need a breather from each other but that doesn’t mean they stop being friends.   They’re simply living their own lives, pursuing other things.  Such as boys or work or both.  I’m just glad that my friends feel the same way.  Sometimes we don’t text or talk to each other for months.  Some even years.  But when we see each other it was as if the months and years never existed.  True friendship does not mean constant validity.  If you need validity, you are not friends.  Move on.

There are also times when a person just need to be alone to doodle and daydream.  When you see a lone person in a coffee shop, never assume that he/she is lonely and want some company.  People who are alone are alone for a reason.  They will not welcome your intrusion.